Questions to Ask Your Husband
15 questions for a man you already know everything about.
15 questions · Free
What has changed about you in the last five years?
One phone between the two of you — the card says whose turn it is.
About Questions to Ask Your Husband
Questions to ask your husband have to assume the basics are covered. These 15 skip anything you learned in the first year and go straight for what has changed — what he has quietly stopped hoping for, what he needs at the moment, what he thinks you have not noticed.
Sample questions to get you started
- 1What has changed about you in the last five years?
- 2What do you need from me that you have stopped asking for?
- 3What are you quietly worried about?
- 4What have you given up on that you have not mentioned?
- 5What do you think I have not noticed lately?
- 6When did you last feel really looked after?
- 7What is the hardest part of your week?
- 8What do you want the next ten years to be about?
- 9What are you proud of that nobody has acknowledged?
- 10What do you find hardest about being married to me?
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- 11What is the best thing about it?
- 12What do you wish we did more of?
- 13What do you wish we did less of?
- 14What is something you have wanted to say and have not?
- 15What do you want me to know about how you are doing?
Tap the game above to play through all prompts.
How to play Questions to Ask Your Husband
- Pick an evening with no deadline.
- Answer first when you ask.
- One follow-up per card, and make it "say more".
- Ten questions is a full evening.
Why couples love this game
Marriages go quiet not because something is wrong but because the questions stop. You already know the answers to the easy ones, so nobody asks anything, and then the man you are answering for is five years out of date.
Tips to make it more fun
- Ask about now rather than about the past.
- Do not rush the ones about needs — those are the useful ones.
- Twice a year is enough.
- Note anything that surprises you and come back to it.
Frequently asked questions
What should I ask my husband?
Things that have changed rather than things you already know. Asking what he has quietly stopped hoping for gets somewhere; asking about his favourite meal does not.
How often should we do this?
Twice a year. The point is to keep the picture current, which does not need doing often — just deliberately.
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