Adult Games for Couples

About Adult Games for Couples

Adult couple games work best when they are not only instructions. These 15 prompts alternate between questions about what each of you actually wants and small things to try, so the talking half informs the doing half rather than being skipped entirely.

Sample questions to get you started

1. 1What is the most attractive thing I have done this month?
2. 2Say one thing you want, out loud, in plain words.
3. 3What is something small that makes a much bigger difference than I realise?
4. 4Two minutes of kissing and nothing else.
5. 5What is something you assumed I would not be interested in?
6. 6Give one instruction and have it followed exactly.
7. 7What is your honest answer on how often you would like this?
8. 8Take one item of clothing off the other, slowly.
9. 9What is something you would want me to check with you about first?
10. 10Three minutes led entirely by one of you.

Tap the game above to play through all prompts.

How to play Adult Games for Couples

1. Both of you have to want to play. That is the first rule.
2. Take turns. Question cards get an honest answer, challenge cards get done or passed.
3. Any card can be passed on with no reason given.
4. Nothing said here gets used as a criticism later.

Why couples love this game

Couples who can talk about this plainly do considerably better than couples who cannot, and the obstacle is almost never willingness — it is that there is no natural moment to start. A deck of prompts is that moment.

Tips to make it more fun

• Answer the question cards properly — they make the rest work.
• Passing is a normal part of playing, not a failure.
• Note the two things you both said yes to and plan one.
• Enthusiasm is the only signal that counts.

Frequently asked questions