Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend
15 questions that show you were paying attention.
15 questions · Free
What was the best part of your week, and the worst?
One phone between the two of you — the card says whose turn it is.
About Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend
Questions to ask your girlfriend that are worth asking have one thing in common: they show you have been paying attention. These 15 ask about the specific texture of her week and her life rather than for a general update, which is a considerably better use of an evening.
Sample questions to get you started
- 1What was the best part of your week, and the worst?
- 2Who is annoying you at the moment?
- 3What are you secretly hoping happens this year?
- 4What is something you are proud of that nobody noticed?
- 5What do you wish you had more time for?
- 6What is something you have been putting off?
- 7What were you like as a teenager?
- 8What do you think your friends would say about you?
- 9What is a compliment you would like to hear more often?
- 10What is something you find hard that you make look easy?
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- 11What do you need when you have had a bad day?
- 12What is something you have changed your mind about recently?
- 13What do you want the next year to look like?
- 14What is something you want more of from me?
- 15What do you love most about this, right now?
Tap the game above to play through all prompts.
How to play Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend
- Ask one at a time, not as a list.
- Answer it yourself first.
- One follow-up, then let the conversation go where it wants.
- Three or four across an evening is enough.
Why couples love this game
Feeling known is mostly a function of being asked about the right things. Broad questions signal politeness; specific ones signal attention, and the difference in the answer you get back is substantial.
Tips to make it more fun
- Ask about something she mentioned last week. That is the whole trick.
- Do not offer solutions unless asked.
- Walking or driving beats sitting opposite each other.
- Silence after an answer is fine.
Frequently asked questions
What are good questions to ask your girlfriend?
Specific ones that show you have been listening. Asking who is annoying her at the moment lands better than asking how work is going, because it demonstrates you retained something.
How many should I ask at once?
Three or four across a whole evening. Reading a list out loud turns it into an interview, which is the failure mode these are designed to avoid.
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