Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl
15 questions that are charming rather than obvious.
15 questions · Free
What was the first thing you noticed about me?
One phone between the two of you — the card says whose turn it is.
About Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl
Flirty questions to ask a girl are better when they are specific and slightly restrained. These 15 hint rather than announce, work over text as well as in person, and give her something interesting to answer rather than a compliment to deflect.
Sample questions to get you started
- 1What was the first thing you noticed about me?
- 2What is something about me that surprised you?
- 3What do I do that you like and have never mentioned?
- 4What were you thinking the first time we spoke?
- 5When do you catch yourself thinking about me?
- 6What is your idea of a perfect evening with me?
- 7What is the best moment we have had so far?
- 8What would you do with a whole day together and no plans?
- 9What do you miss when I am not around?
- 10What is something you would like me to do more often?
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- 11What is the most attractive thing about someone that is not physical?
- 12What is something you have wanted to try together?
- 13What do you find hardest to say out loud?
- 14What would you tell me if you knew I would not react?
- 15What are you thinking right now?
Tap the game above to play through all prompts.
How to play Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl
- One at a time, in person or by text.
- Answer it yourself too.
- Follow up on anything that gets a long pause.
- Do not run through the whole list in one sitting.
Why couples love this game
The most effective flirting is attention rather than flattery. A question that asks about her specifically — what she noticed, what she was thinking — is more flattering than any compliment, and considerably harder to brush off.
Tips to make it more fun
- Specific beats smooth every time.
- Send one mid-afternoon rather than at midnight.
- Leave space for her to escalate if she wants to.
- Stop while it is going well.
Frequently asked questions
What are good flirty questions to ask a girl?
Specific ones about her rather than compliments about her. Asking what she noticed first is more flattering than telling her what you noticed, and much harder to deflect.
Is this too much for a new conversation?
The first half is fine early on. The last few assume some existing familiarity, so save those.
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