Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy
15 questions that are flirty without trying too hard.
15 questions · Free
What was the first thing you noticed about me?
One phone between the two of you — the card says whose turn it is.
About Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy
Flirty questions to ask a guy work best when they are light. These 15 are playful rather than heavy-handed — they land over text, across a table or halfway through an evening, and none of them require anyone to be smooth about it.
Sample questions to get you started
- 1What was the first thing you noticed about me?
- 2What do I do that you find most attractive?
- 3What were you thinking the first time we met?
- 4What is something about me you have never mentioned?
- 5When do you think about me during the day?
- 6What would you do if I turned up unannounced tonight?
- 7What is your idea of a perfect evening with me?
- 8What is something you would like me to wear more often?
- 9What is the best kiss we have had?
- 10What do you miss most when I am not around?
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- 11What would you want to do if we had a whole day and nothing planned?
- 12What is something you would like to try together?
- 13What is the most attractive thing that has nothing to do with looks?
- 14What is something you have wanted to say and not said?
- 15What are you thinking right now, honestly?
Tap the game above to play through all prompts.
How to play Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy
- Ask one at a time, in person or over text.
- Answer it yourself as well — it stops it being one-sided.
- Follow up on anything he hesitates over.
- Do not do all fifteen in one go.
Why couples love this game
Flirting is mostly about attention and a small amount of risk. A question that hints without stating does both at once, and gives the other person an easy way to raise the stakes if they want to.
Tips to make it more fun
- Send one by text mid-afternoon rather than late at night.
- Understatement works better than intensity.
- The hesitations are more informative than the answers.
- Stop while it is still going well.
Frequently asked questions
What are good flirty questions to ask a guy?
Light ones that hint rather than state. "What was the first thing you noticed about me?" works far better than anything more direct, because it leaves him room to decide how far to take the answer.
Do these work over text?
Yes — most of them are better by text, ideally mid-afternoon rather than late at night. One at a time, and answer them yourself as well.
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