Kissing Game for Couples

About Kissing Game for Couples

Kissing is the first thing to become functional in a long relationship — a greeting rather than an event. This game is fifteen prompts about it: where, how long, how it used to be, and what each of you actually prefers, which most couples have genuinely never discussed.

Sample questions to get you started

1. 1What was our best kiss, and where were we?
2. 2Kiss for thirty seconds, timed, and nothing else.
3. 3What do you prefer that you have never said?
4. 4Kiss somewhere other than the mouth.
5. 5How has our kissing changed since the start?
6. 6Recreate our first kiss as accurately as you can.
7. 7What is something you would like more of?
8. 8Kiss with no hands at all.
9. 9When did you last kiss me and mean it rather than out of habit?
10. 10Two minutes, timed, and nothing is allowed to escalate.

Tap the game above to play through all prompts.

How to play Kissing Game for Couples

1. Take turns. Some cards are questions and some are instructions.
2. Anything with a duration gets an actual timer.
3. Pass on anything with a timer if the timer is the part that feels silly.
4. Fifteen cards is a short evening.

Why couples love this game

Couples who kiss deliberately rather than habitually report noticeably more affection generally, and it costs nothing. The reason it stops is not desire, it is that nobody ever brings it up, which a deck of cards solves.

Tips to make it more fun

• Set the timer properly — thirty seconds is longer than you think.
• Answer the question cards honestly. They are the point.
• Do not let it escalate straight away. The constraint is the game.
• Come back to whichever card you both liked most.

Frequently asked questions