Questions to Ask Your Crush
15 questions that are interested without being obvious about it.
15 questions · Free
What is something you would want someone to know about you early on?
One phone between the two of you — the card says whose turn it is.
About Questions to Ask Your Crush
Questions to ask your crush have to do two jobs: find out whether you actually like them, and let them know you are paying attention. These 15 do both without committing you to anything, which is the whole requirement at this stage.
Sample questions to get you started
- 1What is something you would want someone to know about you early on?
- 2What do you spend far too much time thinking about?
- 3What is something you are really good at?
- 4What did you want to be when you were younger?
- 5What is the fastest way to make you laugh?
- 6What is a strong opinion you have about something trivial?
- 7What would you drop everything for if I asked you tomorrow?
- 8What is something people get wrong about you?
- 9What is the best trip you have taken?
- 10What are you working towards at the moment?
Show all 15 questions
- 11What is something you would like to try but have not?
- 12What do your friends come to you for?
- 13What is something that always cheers you up?
- 14What is something you would like to do that you have never had anyone to do it with?
- 15What do you think of me, honestly?
Tap the game above to play through all prompts.
How to play Questions to Ask Your Crush
- One at a time, in whatever conversation you are already having.
- Answer it yourself too. It is a conversation, not an interview.
- Follow up on whatever they light up about.
- Do not force all fifteen into one evening.
Why couples love this game
The stage before anything is stated runs on plausible deniability. Questions that are genuinely interesting to answer let you show interest without declaring it, and let them do the same — which is how these things usually get resolved.
Tips to make it more fun
- The follow-up is where you find out whether you like them.
- Ask about something they mentioned before. It is the strongest signal there is.
- Do not overthink the wording — attention matters more than phrasing.
- If nothing lands after five, that is also information.
Frequently asked questions
What should I ask my crush?
Something genuinely interesting to answer rather than anything that reveals your position. The point at this stage is to find out whether you enjoy talking to them, which is more useful than finding out whether they like you.
How do I not seem too keen?
Answer the questions yourself as well. A one-sided list of questions reads as an interview; a two-sided one reads as a conversation.
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