Red Flag, Green Flag
15 behaviours. Call each one and find out how differently you judge people.
15 questions · Free
Texts back within seconds, always
Red flag or green flag?
One phone between the two of you — the card says whose turn it is.
About Red Flag, Green Flag
Red flag green flag gives you a behaviour and asks you to call it. Fifteen rounds, answered at the same time, and the entertainment is entirely in the ones where you disagree — because those are the standards each of you has been applying quietly all along.
Sample questions to get you started
- 1Texts back within seconds, always
- 2Still close friends with every ex
- 3Never argues about anything
- 4Splits every bill to the penny
- 5Talks to their mother every day
- 6Has no photos of anything on their phone
- 7Says they hate their job but never looks for another
- 8Remembers every detail of a story you told once
- 9Is rude to staff but charming to you
- 10Cancels plans with friends to see you
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- 11Has an opinion on absolutely everything
- 12Never posts anything about their life
- 13Apologises immediately, every time, for everything
- 14Keeps their finances completely private
- 15Asks a follow-up question every single time
Tap the game above to play through all prompts.
How to play Red Flag, Green Flag
- Read the behaviour and both call it at the same time.
- Matching calls move on. Disagreements get thirty seconds each.
- Nobody is allowed to change their call after hearing the other.
- Fifteen rounds takes about fifteen minutes.
Why couples love this game
Everyone carries a private list of what is and is not acceptable in other people, and couples rarely compare theirs. Doing it about hypothetical strangers is painless, and it tells you a surprising amount about what each of you is watching for.
Tips to make it more fun
- Call it simultaneously — following the other person's lead ruins it.
- The disagreements are the point.
- With another couple, call it simultaneously and watch who looks at their partner first.
- Do not treat any of these as being about each other.
Frequently asked questions
How do you play red flag green flag?
Read the behaviour and both call it at the same time. Matching calls move on; disagreements get thirty seconds of argument each. Nobody may change their call after hearing the other.
What does it actually reveal?
The private standards each of you applies to other people, which couples almost never compare. Doing it about hypothetical strangers makes it painless.
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