How Well Do You Know Me?
15 questions, scored, and the result is usually lower than expected.
15 questions · Free
What is my go-to order at a café?
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About How Well Do You Know Me?
How well do you know me questions are only useful with a score attached, because the interesting result is not the total but the gap between the total and how confident you both were beforehand. Fifteen questions, written down, compared, scored out of fifteen.
Sample questions to get you started
- 1What is my go-to order at a café?
- 2What am I most insecure about?
- 3What was my worst year, and why?
- 4Which of my friends do I find most difficult?
- 5What do I do when I am stressed?
- 6What is my favourite thing you do for me?
- 7What did I want to be as a child?
- 8What is my most irrational fear?
- 9What would I do with a free day?
- 10What is the compliment I most want to hear?
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- 11What is my proudest achievement?
- 12What do I complain about most?
- 13What is the one chore I always avoid?
- 14What do I need after a bad day?
- 15What do I think is our biggest strength?
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How to play How Well Do You Know Me?
- Predict your score out of 15 before you start. Write it down.
- Both write your answers to every question privately.
- Compare and score a point per match.
- Compare the real score with your prediction.
Why couples love this game
Confidence about a partner rises with time together while accuracy does not, because people stop updating. A scored quiz makes the gap visible in about ten minutes, and every question you get wrong is a small piece of information you had missing.
Tips to make it more fun
- Predicting your score first is the most useful part of the whole exercise.
- Be strict — close does not count.
- The misses are the point. Ask a follow-up on each one.
- Retake it in a year and compare both numbers.
Frequently asked questions
How well should you know your partner?
Better than most people do, and less well than most people think. Confidence rises with time together while accuracy does not, because couples stop updating what they know.
What is a good score?
Ten or eleven out of fifteen is typical. The more interesting number is the one you predicted before starting — that gap is the actual result.
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